At one point or another in all of our lives, we fall prey to the paws of our minds and imagination, they start playing tricks on our feeble spirits. giving us pictures of -what we presume- to be the perfect match for us, and filling us with hope that someday we would actually find that person and live happily ever after with them. most of the time -if not always- those fantasies are a little less than unrealistic. Blondes, brunettes, muscular, fit, thin, plays sports, extra smart, great skin, awesome sense of humor. and the list goes on.
All of us had had this happen to them, but if you still deny it, then i would have you consider the following. if you have ever liked someone, and said "if they change that one aspect about their life, they'd be perfect for me" then you're still guilty. It's happened with all of us, and it's nothing to be ashamed of, humans are gifted with their imagination, and hopes. hopes for a better brighter future with someone that is perfect for you, and you love, is not something to be ashamed of.
Of course, as i have already said, the requests are more often than not quite extreme and unrealistic. but none the less, quite amusing, and enlightening. I had a talk with a friend of mine lately and we discussed this. thus the following is what my mental image is, on my future life partner.
A silver head of platinum, that shines like the stars,
or fiery red, as a twilight sun, out far.
Skin so silky and smooth,
and eyes so dazzling, of emerald and hazelnut dyes.
A soul as gentle as a tulip,
and a spirit as free as the butterflies.
A heart that has no fear of the unknown,
and a mind that yearns for knowledge, beyond the earth and the skies.
I know i'm no gallant knight.
No shining armor or horse of white.
No golden hair or a heart so bright.
But perhaps one day i'll meet my dream,
Perhaps one day i'll find her in my sight.
All of us had had this happen to them, but if you still deny it, then i would have you consider the following. if you have ever liked someone, and said "if they change that one aspect about their life, they'd be perfect for me" then you're still guilty. It's happened with all of us, and it's nothing to be ashamed of, humans are gifted with their imagination, and hopes. hopes for a better brighter future with someone that is perfect for you, and you love, is not something to be ashamed of.
Of course, as i have already said, the requests are more often than not quite extreme and unrealistic. but none the less, quite amusing, and enlightening. I had a talk with a friend of mine lately and we discussed this. thus the following is what my mental image is, on my future life partner.
A silver head of platinum, that shines like the stars,
or fiery red, as a twilight sun, out far.
Skin so silky and smooth,
and eyes so dazzling, of emerald and hazelnut dyes.
A soul as gentle as a tulip,
and a spirit as free as the butterflies.
A heart that has no fear of the unknown,
and a mind that yearns for knowledge, beyond the earth and the skies.
I know i'm no gallant knight.
No shining armor or horse of white.
No golden hair or a heart so bright.
But perhaps one day i'll meet my dream,
Perhaps one day i'll find her in my sight.
my problem with what you wrote (which is a huge problem:D) is that you were talking about that the one would be perfect for you if she fulfills certain criteria for you. ana shayef looking at love from this perspective is very shallow and materialistic and non-spiritual. I believe the one criterion that you should await your love to have, is to be the one God has made for me. With that i ask of no other single demand, and offer complete maximal unconditional love. W sa3et-ha if youre true to it... when you get the person God has created for you... theres nothing that will be dissapointing about her... cause shed fulfill your one only higher requisit that with it comes everything else.
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